Ottie is an AI mediator that helps you and your partner actually hear each other. Not couples therapy. Just one guided conversation.
It seems like this isn't just about chores. It's about feeling seen and validated.
Most couples don't have a hundred different problems. They have the same argument that keeps showing up with new costumes.
It's rarely about the chores.
It's actually about feeling respected.
It's rarely about the math.
It's actually about feeling safe.
It's rarely about screen time.
It's actually about feeling like a priority.
Ottie exists for that moment — when you're tired of replaying the same fight and ready to actually understand what's underneath it.
You and your partner enter a code and join a shared Ottie session from your phones. You're in this together — but you don't have to talk out loud yet.
Ottie gives each of you your own private space. One at a time, it asks gentle, structured questions:
When you're both ready, Ottie synthesizes what it heard into:
Keep having the same argument on repeat
Want to talk without things instantly getting defensive
Are on a therapy waitlist and need support in the meantime
Are in therapy already and want a mediated check-in between sessions
Don't want "another quiz app," but an actual structured conversation
"For the first time, I felt like he heard what I meant, not just what I said."
"Our therapist told us to keep using Ottie between sessions because it actually gets us talking."
It's not a replacement, but a daily tool for the moments you're stuck.
Deep, long-term work
For the active conflict
Habits & Games
Ottie doesn't diagnose, treat, or provide mental-health services. If you're in crisis, please contact emergency services.
Each partner answers questions privately; you decide what gets shared back in the joint summary.
Ottie doesn't ask you to secretly record your partner or upload audio. Everything starts from what you choose to tell it.
Your conversations are used to run your session and improve your experience. We don't sell your answers to advertisers.
If you or your partner feel unsafe, or you're in immediate danger, Ottie is not the right tool. Please contact your local emergency service or a crisis hotline.
Think of the one conversation you keep avoiding.That's the one Ottie is built for.
Free to try. No credit card required.
No. Ottie uses structured, therapeutic-style questions to help you communicate, but it is not therapy and does not replace a licensed professional.
No. You can join from different locations. Each gets a private flow, then you review the summary together when ready.
You can use Ottie solo to clarify your feelings and get suggested scripts to start a calmer conversation.
Yes. Your individual answers are private until you choose to share them via the joint summary. We do not sell your data.